she's a gypsy.

"i think the only reason people hold onto memories so tight is because memories are the only things that don't change when everything else does."

i came across that quote today. i've heard it a million times. but this round of reading it put a bad taste in my mouth. call me bitter. because i know i am..

but memories are fallible -- we choose what we want to remember, we unconsciously select what to forget. and then imagination plays a part in filling in the spaces of what was forgotten.

we change memory when we can't change everything else.